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Wednesday, December 10, 2003
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Read this somewhere.
From a book whose title i can't recall.
"The euphoria of the "in love" state gives us the illusion that we have an intimate relationship. We feel that we belong to each other. We believe we can conquer all problems. We feel altruistic toward each other. As one young man said about his fiance, "I can't conceive of doing anything to hurt her. My only desire is to make her happy. I would do anything to make her happy." Such obsession gives us the false sense that our egocentric attitudes have been eradicated and we have become sort of a Mother Teresa, willing to give anything for the benefit of our lover."
Makes quite a bit of sense realli. and also gives me a logical explanation why love is one thing whose goodness is so popularly exaggerated. So in the end, probably all we wanted (as usual) is jus to feel good about our own self.
but well, i'm not gonna try to fight the need to love. probably could play it down a little.
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